Confucious,
I'm glad you're feeling better. I find kinship in these words from Narkissos:
But we are not tied to the role people assign us in their stories. We can step out and make our own stories whenever we really want to.
They remind me of a friend, a former witness, who refuses to associate with active JW's on the grounds that they are part of Babylon the Great...
Whip that one out and see what happens...
Best wishes,
Steve